Monday, April 30, 2007

CHAPTER 4, PAGE 30

Families are where love is written not in poetry but in prose. What is love? Watch a parent caring for a handicapped child. See a spouse coping with a partner suffering from Alzheimer’s disease. Watch a family playing together in a park on a sunny afternoon, or a toddler taking its first steps and falling laughingly into outstretched parental arms.

There is a beauty, undemonstrative, unselfconscious, that lives in a thousand small gestures of listening, caring, helping, giving, for no ulterior motive other than the fact that here we are 'we' not 'I'.

Celebrations have always been an important part of family and community life. Although most of our celebrations and holidays have gradually changed, their purpose has not.

As always, the pageantry, ritual, and symbolism of celebrations help us to unite, motivate, and educate. For parents, this makes celebrations ideal tools for building family strengths and teaching family values

Celebrations motivate us. Celebrations not only allow us to take pride in past achievements, but they also rally confidence for the future We all want to give our children a place of refuge and a sense of predictability. We all wish to make the difficult times easier and the unknown feel safer.

Rituals have served these functions for ancient cultures; and rituals can now do the same for us, too. Family traditions and rites help establish a common spiritual ground on which bonds can be forged-bonds that transcend age, gender, and individual interests.

Indeed, a strong spiritual life can help a family achieve harmony even when there are unusual differences

Bits and Pieces from articles on the web

GOOD MORNING !

I had a grand day yesterday celebrating. It is so important that we show those we love just how important they are! The little ones really enjoyed it all and the older ones enjoyed watching the little ones. I hope you enjoyed the pictures. I’m so blessed to have all of them to celebrate with.

Back to work this morning and thankful for another new day. I’ll be celebrating it too ! Maybe in a little different way, but definitely gonna celebrate.

THOUGHT FOR TODAY

Share with others what is most important to you-give gifts from the heart

The time you have with your children goes fast. So take the time now to build memories with your children by spending time with them

May your day be blessed with a few smiles and lots of sunshine to warm your heart !

MA

 

 

9 comments:

Anonymous said...

loved all the pics but the butterfly cake takes the cake. I love that one. Looks like they have a very pretty yard

Anonymous said...

Awwwwww the pictures are beautiful of the children as always,.Pumpkin didn't look too pleased on one of them though LOL!!! The old water wheel was a lovely picture and the surrounding area so picturesque.Lots of trees like that where your son lives,are same where my son is working just now in USA.At times I cannot belive how many trees  there are.I am so happy you had a wonderful day and the weather was kind to you.Princess looked so bonny in her crown.Take Care Have a lovely Monday Thankyou for sharing your wonderful family celebration with us.I hope you get a few more smiles today and a little bit of sunshine too.God Bless.Kath
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Anonymous said...

What wonderful pictures. It looks like you had a wonderful day! I have never seen a cake like that one, it sure is pretty.
sandra

Anonymous said...

The photos were lovely.  I was privaleged to watch my g'daughter get baptised by full immersion last year when she was 10.  A very special day.
Jenny <><

Anonymous said...

What a beautiful family.  I'm so glad you are wise enough to enjoy them.  Just loved the cake!  

Anonymous said...

Iam so pleased you had such a lovely time with your delightful family ,your pictures are lovely thanks for sharing them ...love Jan xx

Anonymous said...

Thanks for sharing the photos, I just loved that birthday cake!!  What a wonderful family you have, I am so glad you had a good time together yesterday. Its true about them growing so fast and I always do appreciate every day.  Hugs, Terry x

Anonymous said...

What wonderful pictures. Love the one of you and the little Pumpkin! The expression you`re wearing made me laugh. What handsome family you have and the children are beautiful!
That old grist mill is great - so pretty.
HUGS
Penny
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Anonymous said...

I loved your pictures! Looks like it was a fun day for everyone!
Pam